Truthfulness & Lying In Marriage

Here's an enlightening post from Jimmy about baring your soul, letting go and keeping connected as a response to one member who had been holding back herself to her husband because of trust issues. He wrote:

People change. I have changed in the last 30 years, and so have most other people.
In our relationships, we can't hold onto what we had. We have to forge somethign new all the time, to keep it alive.
Is he willing to forge somethign new with you? Are you willing to stretch yourself to forge something new with him?
His staying away from a particular website is not the answer. It's just a temporary hold out.
But here's the thing. If you just get mad and go away, that might be why he is going elsewhere for life juice, for something fresh and alive or new.

Look at what you did here. You came here, bared your soul and got vulnerable, then some people, in a effort to help, took time out of their schedules to type their thoughts, but some said somethings that upset you, you got mad, spewed some venom, and left.
Many people have tried reaching out to you since, but you've ignored them all.
Might you be doing to us what you do to your husband? If the answer is yes to any degree, come back and let's talk about it. We might be onto somethign important here.

Your shutting down emotionally and getting punitive might be why he isn't willing to keep working on it, that is, experimenting sexually with you – because out of anger you pull away? Maybe you need to learn how to get angry, let it go, keep connected and move onto something new and fresh and enlivening?

Just a guess. Forgive me if I am wrong.